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EMOTIONAL
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PSYCHOLOGICAL HEALTH |
By Robert Mahabodh
Armstead, Ph.D.
What is happiness? What is health? The answer is relative. Certainly it is connected
strongly with a sense of satisfaction with our life and a sense of well being, as well as
contentment, the ability to love and work, having interpersonal skills, and many other
traits. The role of psychology has increasingly become one of supporting the actualization
of these qualities within us.
One of the things
that can get in the way of this sense of well being and happiness is our desire for
security. Taken to an extreme, this leads to boredom and a sense of flatness, and if it
continues it can subsequently lead to depression.
Another factor
which can interfere with our sense of well being is when we become split within
ourselves, and we begin to make ourselves wrong for how we are, or for what we see in
ourselves. This process of judging ourselves inhibits our ability to make use of what
there is in us, and to make the best of it. Taken to an extreme, we end up being at war
with ourselves, afraid of ourselves, and this is a crisis situation. There is a definite
need to end this conflict, to find harmony and to bring satisfaction and balance into our
life. This conflict can be healed, and the inner harmony can be attained.
When we are afraid
of ourselves, the beauty of our heart and love cannot emerge. Sometimes we have
difficulties getting started on our own, however, and the opportunity of talking with
someone who can listen and reflect back what is in our way can be invaluable. That someone
can be a professional or even a good friend. The quality of this contact has been found to
aid
healing even from severe illness. There are exercises and processes which can help us
expand our normal ways of perceiving and experiencing the world. They increase our
sensitivity and support expansion into new realms of
awareness. If you would like assistance, please contact me through the
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